HOW TO MAKE LOVE....

The topic sounds corny....right? Well i was switched to counselor mode over this weekend, a friend had an issue which i tried talking her through....smallie thanks for your permission to use this!!!.  Well back to the topic, she complained about having never had an orgasm through any form of sexual intercourse except while masturbating, and her present boyfriend is the  first guy she is having any form of sexual intercourse with...never knew we still had 25yr old virgins... , they have been dating for 2 years and she loves him, but scared that the lovemaking might be an issue.

So this is where my lecture begins. i cant say I'm versed in the art of love making or know the clicks to it, but i believe with a little bit of experience garnered over my 'sexual lifetime' and from materials.  I can and was able to clear some things for her which is basically that sex is about 2 'mature' individuals who have to give and receive and, be able to express themselves if they believe they are not receiving as much as they expect. Or in some cases not being able to bring up suggestions or introduce something different in bed. I would be discussing this issue in parts over the week.

The art of sex ...I'm assuming its between 2 consenting individuals of opposite sex, any other illustration would be stated...... or rather lets call it lovemaking, is the most magnificent celestial experience. While making love, we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future; everything freezes to time and we live in the very moment. But unfortunately for some people; love making do not last longer and they are not able to enjoy every bit of it.

Normally people can stretch love making to an hour long activity, but making love for whole night is always possible.  All you need is some simple techniques which are to be followed by both the partners. If you follow step by step procedure and understand what is needed to be done at particular time, you can make your nights enjoyable and memorable too. Making love is not just about genital penetration, it is very important to understand that 100% participation and complete devotion of the partners, better mutual understanding, desire for passionate love making and readiness to take initiative in the game of love are the prerequisites. There are situations when one partner has to lead and let the other partner keep his/her desires burning, failing to understand this will cost in early ending of your passion packed activity. Also please take care not to eat more at dinner, because it affects your active participation in love making.

 A BRIEF VIDEO ON SEVERAL WAYS OF MAKING LOVE WITHOUT PENETRATION!!

In subsequent blogs I would be discussing :
-  Relationship and sex
-  Foreplay
- Talking dirty/ naughty  (healthy)
- The sexual anatomy of both sexes
- 20 different sexual positions

Also "39 ways to make your love last and last"a material culled from Kimberly & Pamela's blog.

Please readers discretion is advised as some certain terms might be used in the course of this topic.

Well catch you on the rebound and watch out for gist about my 'madam', love her so much and also appreciate her support when i told her i was going to write about this........BABE I LOVE YOU......but you already know abi!!!