GENTLEMEN AND DATING PART 4

We would be concluding the series on 'gentlemen and dating' with this write up on needs of both sexes

Gentlemen and Dating Part 4....
All of us have physical needs. A child also needs to be touched. But to think that a relationship must involve sex is wrong. There are many other ways of expressing ourselves physically other than sex. This applies to both men and women. It is not that men are more sexually demanding. Both the genders need to be pampered in many different ways.


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For example, if a woman needs to be held while crying or need to have a back rub, the man would appreciate her reciprocating in a way that will satisfy his ‘manly’, emotional or psychological needs. We all know that there are MANY different ways to satisfy those needs besides intercourse. There is a good saying that ‘every man wants a lady in public but a PRO in the bedroom.’ It’s not very hard to figure out what that all means to each of us, and it certainly might be different for each of us.

Many young people struggle with their moral upbringing when dating. They hear their friends brag about conquests and wonder how much of it is true. We are doing a serious disservice to the young people today by not being honest about sex. Seeing R-rated movies and sex magazines gives young men ideas that about sexual behavior and prowess that is sure to cause many problems with their mate or spouse. The days of yesteryear where the man initiated sex, the positions, and the frequencies is pretty much placed in the dinosaur section of the library. The newest scientific finding that dark chocolate is good for you may play a bigger part in the man’s role to attract a female. At any rate, it will give them something to talk about while they get to know each other before any sex takes place.
WELLLL !!!!THATS ALL FOLKS, WE WOULD  BE SWITCHING TO SOMETHING MUCH MORE 'RAUNCHIER' IN SUBSEQUENT TOPICS...SO KEEP YOUR EYES GLUED ON THIS SPACE......

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GENTLEMEN AND DATING PART 3

hi there, we are continuing on our dating tips.....

Gentlemen and Dating Part 3......

In gentlemen and dating ? Part 1 and 2, we explored the differences in women’s take on sex from their point of view compared to a man’s take. In Part 3 and 4 we will continue to explore the differences and learn more about desires of men and women. The view of the now famous book, Women Are from Venus and Men Are from Mars, is yet another piece of evidence that shows how men and women feel about the same topics.

When talking to women (i seem to have more female friends than male friends) , and a few men, I have discovered that most of the similarities of both sexes revolve around which person is being asked. Although the general desire of most men is equal, the general desire of women is also equal.

I might not be married but I feel that a good marriage can remain the same after many years. It may not be the same as it was in the beginning but between the husband and wife, there is understanding, caring, sharing, gentleness and love. There are also alternatives that keep the marriage alive, happy and fully satisfying. I think that open, honest communication of what a person likes and dislikes, and what will be acceptable or not, is the best way for any couple to remain dedicated to and in love with each other for many years.

When talking about individuals (or single people), I think it is hard to find companionship and intimacy without sex coming in to play at some time. Saving sex for marriage is one of the things that I have noticed changing lately. That is just another facet of getting to know somebody. Of course, safe sex always needs to be practiced and all the warnings given about being used and feeling used if the relationship is one sided. The good thing is that if we openly communicate what we each want, we have a better chance of getting it.

......this article was culled from a write on romance guide, i was short of words to type 

GENTLEMEN AND DATING (PART 2)

HEY.....im back in your face. We would be continuing with  our dating series...if you missed last part you can get it on
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Gentlemen and Dating (Part 2)...........
........ Some, not most, men prefer to have a lady on their arm in public and a ‘pro’ in their bed. As far as casual sex goes, women still make those decisions. It is unfortunate that some women play games and act like teases, but only the inexperienced man will fall for that kind of game playing. Same is true for a woman going out to dinner and not knowing what to do afterwards if the man expects pay back. A simple goodnight kiss and saying that it was fun should be enough.



My belief is that intimacy is just as important as sex. In the long run, it really has nothing to do with being over-sexed or under-sexed, just that men and women have different needs. Questions about mechanical versus natural intercourse can be answered by saying that release is just that, a release. A man wants the release (and doesn’t much care how he gets it) whereas a woman wants to feel ‘loved’, cuddled, embraced, felt needed and desirous.
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Most women that will talk about their relationship will admit that their interpretation of sex centers on a man’s ability to be intimate and loving in bed. They readily admit to having sex many of the times that a man initiates it, but they enjoy it to the fullest when the man has paid attention to her needs of cuddling and talking before hand.

In Gentlemen and Dating Part 3, we explore some of the things that make men and women different when it comes to their sex drive.

GENTLEMEN AND DATING (Part 1)

Hey i'm back from a long self imposed break from blogging, had to take time out to sort my own relationship...lol. I believe at this point i can tell you that i just got ENGAGED..!!! yes..she agreed for me and plans are in top gear for the marriage but the most important thing now is completion of our 'marriage counseling courses' (which i have issues with...gist for another topic)...maybe after my wedding i would use my dating process as a testimony to application of some of the advices here.
well we would be readdressing the issue of dating and taking it from a guys perspective to dating. This discussion would be in 4 parts....so enjoy!!
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Gentlemen and Dating.....
.....What is the right combination of factors that would make a man act more like an ‘animal’ rather than a gentleman on dates? If a woman, straight out lets a guy know there are certain ‘rules’ for dating her, then many potential dates would never happen. I have a female friend. When a guy would ask her out on a date , she would tell him that sounded good, but she needed to know that she wouldn’t have sex because of a date. If he were interested in her for more than sex, then he would continue to pursue her. If he wanted more, than she would not hear from him again.

Most people have their shares of men who wanted something for something. Even at work, my friend who stays alone and works in one of the new generation banks, she became friendly with a boss who soon was telling her that she could go very far with the job, and then he showed up at her apartment door. She talked to him, at the door, but did not let him come in. He became very mean  towards her at work  but he still did not get to first base. She did eventually transfer out of that position so She didn’t have to be subjected to him and his ‘come-ons

Of course men want to have sex whenever and wherever they can, but that does not mean that the woman has to agree. Different sizes or shapes of women don’t make a man more or less ready, willing and eager to have sex. Whether you are shapely or not, your body type and personality attracts certain kinds of guys. If you have already set the game rules, then you shouldn’t need to worry about the man trying to get his share of your desserts after dinner and a movie.

I'd continue this on the next part...keep your eyes peeled!!!